Wednesday, August 20, 2008

11 days left in August + no referral = it's over for us....unless by some miracle the governments agree to continue, but that is very unlikely.....

4 comments:

Julie and Dean said...

Please do not give up hope. If VN does not work out for your family that does NOT mean a referral is over for you. Either way you look at it, VN is leading you to your child to be. Stay positive. Thinking of you.

Dana said...

I'm so sorry to read that you might not be getting a referral. I pray that the two countries can reach an agreement.

Dana D.
(another PLAN family)

Laurel said...

I'm so sorry you and your family are having to go through this. I'm thinking of you and all the families who will not be receiving a referral. It's a very sad and crushing blow for us and most especially for the children who will continue to wait. Wishing you and your family the best.
Take care,
Laurel
(Plan DTV-11/27/7)

Jennifer Cheer said...

I am so sorry. I will be praying for your family. This is such hard news. Maybe God is leading you down another path. When we started with China in 2006, we were told 6-9 months for a referral. That wait is now over 2 years and will probably take another 2 until referral. We were crushed. So, we switched to Vietnam, and now we have Sarah. This could be what is happening...maybe your baby is waiting for you in another country? I am sure this does not make you feel beter. I do know that when you do hold your baby in your arms, you will know that everything happened for a reason.